I know it has been a while since we posted a new article. Like everyone else in the world right now, I have had a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions swirling around my head… which makes it pretty hard to write something that isn’t a jumbled mess of words. I hope this article is helpful to at least one of you.
The world is currently experiencing a wave of uncertainty but this doesn’t mean we can’t still find ways to focus on the important, exciting and special aspects of our lives, including weddings.
Love should always be at the core of anything related to wedding planning. When there is positivity and loving energy, you can get through any challenges or uncertainty. If you and your partner are in the midst of planning your wedding day, here are a few tips that will help.
Deciding Whether to Postpone or Cancel
I strongly recommend that instead of cancelling your entire wedding, you postpone it. It can be difficult to stay positive about the wedding planning process with all of the lingering uncertainty, but it will end. By postponing your wedding, you’ll incur fewer financial losses than if you cancel it completely. Your hired professionals and venue will be more than happy to help you make alternative arrangements, ensuring everyone benefits. If your wedding is in the near future, start the process of choosing another date and making the necessary arrangements with vendors and guests. If your wedding is still several months away, there’s probably no need to change your date yet. Just keep your eyes and ears open for changes in regulations and restrictions.
Rope in the Experts
As mentioned, your vendors are here to help you. They are professionals who want to keep their clients happy. Plus, they want to keep their businesses running too. There’s no need to go through this alone. Ask your wedding planner, venue and vendors for help when rescheduling your wedding day. Not only will this help relieve some of the pressure, but they may be able to assist you with some helpful suggestions that will make all this a lot easier too.
Focus on One Thing at a Time
Planning a wedding is a full time job. When you need to plan an entire wedding all over again, it can get very overwhelming very quickly. Slow down and start by brainstorming everything you need to take care of, starting with a new date. Once you’ve discussed a new date with your venue and vendors, you can start taking care of the finer details, such as letting your guests know. A wedding website is a great tool to have for communications with your guests.
Remain Positive
This can be easier said than done but positivity will be key at this time. Lean on your partner, friends, and family for support. It’s perfectly normal to feel sad, angry and disappointed but try to bring your mind back to your reason for wanting to get married. Focus on love, unity and the bigger picture to stay positive. You will get through this and you can take solace in the fact that you’re not the only couple who needs to navigate these challenges.
Nobody planned for any of this to happen but the good news is that you’re surrounded by people who will help ensure you still have the wedding of your dreams.
If you need personalized guidance, schedule some time to meet with me (virtually by phone or video). Our initial 30 minute session is on me.
As always, I leave you with Glitter Wishes & Unicorn Kisses
